When I was young, I thought the words/concept of Eshet Chayil were in conflict with my egalitarian beliefs and told my husband he dared not refer to, or address me, in such terms. At around 50, I changed my mind. Today, I consider the words to embody love and respect for the role of women a historical context. Though the roles and responsibilities have changed dramatically, the expression of love and respect is every bit as valuable to the relationship between husband and wife.
When I was young, I thought the words/concept of Eshet Chayil were in conflict with my egalitarian beliefs and told my husband he dared not refer to, or address me, in such terms. At around 50, I changed my mind. Today, I consider the words to embody love and respect for the role of women a historical context. Though the roles and responsibilities have changed dramatically, the expression of love and respect is every bit as valuable to the relationship between husband and wife.