Fair enough. People sort into the partners they want--perhaps it's better for both of you to have a strong signal--if the signal is that strong (e.g. it is part of one's identity), then no sense in finding out later. I'll think more on the matching theory and signaling.
Fair enough. People sort into the partners they want--perhaps it's better for both of you to have a strong signal--if the signal is that strong (e.g. it is part of one's identity), then no sense in finding out later. I'll think more on the matching theory and signaling.
Best of luck!