My mother started out as a domestic helper when she arrived in NYC from Ireland. She was treated with dignity and respect and she worked her heart out for an old Jewish woman on the Upper East Side. They are still good friends today -- 32 years later. My mom's former employer is now a trusted friend. Hire a "domestic helper" and don't feel guilty. Just treat her well. She will appreciate it...and some day, so will her children.
My mother started out as a domestic helper when she arrived in NYC from Ireland. She was treated with dignity and respect and she worked her heart out for an old Jewish woman on the Upper East Side. They are still good friends today -- 32 years later. My mom's former employer is now a trusted friend. Hire a "domestic helper" and don't feel guilty. Just treat her well. She will appreciate it...and some day, so will her children.