Thank you for these. I will bring them to my seders. The fourth one especially struck a cord. We're hosting both seders at our place this year. Just the other day, my husband told me that his mother took him aside and asked that on the second night he, his father and brother lead the seder, "like old times." Nobody thought to ask me! Last year, when we hosted seder, Jason and I led it together -- and by all accounts it was wonderful. So yes, why is it that I will spend days cooking and cleaning to host everyone at my table, but then no one thinks twice that I might want to lead the seder in my home?
Thank you for these. I will bring them to my seders. The fourth one especially struck a cord. We're hosting both seders at our place this year. Just the other day, my husband told me that his mother took him aside and asked that on the second night he, his father and brother lead the seder, "like old times." Nobody thought to ask me! Last year, when we hosted seder, Jason and I led it together -- and by all accounts it was wonderful. So yes, why is it that I will spend days cooking and cleaning to host everyone at my table, but then no one thinks twice that I might want to lead the seder in my home?